Me and Pu
(pronounced Bhoo)

Pu is a lady who hails from Laos to the east of Thailand. We met on Koh Tao
in April 2005 and have been very close ever since. I moved to Thailand in
September 2005 to do an English teaching course and Pu and I have been happily living
together ever since.

In March 2006 we went to Laos and applied for a holiday visa for Pu to come
to Australia. Whilst there we went to a photo studio and below is one of the
many pictures we had taken. The visa was granted and we spent a great 2 months
in Adelaide, Cairns and Sydney returning to Laos on the 9th of May.

Geez I cut a handsome figure don't I?
As I post this to the web we are in Laos (June 06) putting in an application for a
prospective spouse visa. We have spent 4 weeks running around getting a stack of
papers together for DIMIA (Australian immigration). We had an interview on the
9th of June and we will shortly return to Chiangmai Thailand to await the
outcome. (The prospective spouse visa was finally granted on September 11th
2006)
Whilst living in
Lampang in early 2006 we loved to relax at the end of the day with a beer on the front porch of
the "shophouse". Although the shophouse was a great place to live we
decided to move back to Chiangmai so that I could access a lot more facilities
for english speakers who aren't fluent in Thai.
Finally....a
Visa!!
Well here it is October the 22nd 2006 and these pages are a
little behind.
I left Thailand on the 31st of August after months of waiting around in
Chiangmai waiting for word on Pu's visa. On my way home I had a brief stopover
in Singapore and checked my email to find an email from DIMA's Bangkok office
informing us that we needed one more piece of paper signed by Pu and that the
visa would then be granted... GREAT !!! We could've done this weeks before and
I'd been telling them for weeks that I had to leave as my ticket was expiring.
To cut a long story short, I typed out the required statement and emailed it to
a friend,Lee, in Chiangmai who printed it up, got Pu to sign it and posted it
off to BKK. On the 11th September we received an email from the BKK embassy
informing us that the visa was granted. (from date of application to visa being
granted took exactly 4 months so compared to most we have been lucky).
In a mad flurry we organised a flight for Pu 2 days later. Pu then had the task
of packing up our room, getting to BKK and finding her way to the embassy to get
her visa stamp inserted in her passport before dashing back to the airport to
get the plane to Cairns via Hong Kong. A daunting task as most airport signs
were in Thai/English and Chinese English respectively.
Pu arrived in Australia on the 14th of September without any major mishaps
except perhaps that her suitcase looked like an elephant had sat on it and the
wheels were broken.
In the meantime I was confirming employment details for
Mutitjulu (near Uluru/Ayers Rock) in Central Australia and it was originally
planned for the 18th of September but I needed to have an excision of a skin
cancer from my forehead and skin grafting to the area and so my start date was
changed to the 25th of September so that I could recover from that.
Now
Pu and I had been planning to marry for ages and we were going to do it in Laos
but this proved to be a helluva lot harder than it should be so we put it off
till we were both back in Australia. So we had previously lodged a notice of
intention to marry so we had well and truly complied with the waiting period and
there was nothing to stop us doing it now.
Pu and I were married on the
foreshore at Machans beach just north of Cairns on Wednesday the 20th of
September. It probably seemed a quick thing for many people but as I say
we had been wanting to for a while and part of the rush was that until we were
married Pu was unable to have a medicare card, open a bank account or access
free English lessons until after we were married and the next stage of the visa
process was applied for.
The wedding went off well and in front of a
small gathering of good friends we did the deed.
Just in case you don't believe it here's the pictures.

The
maid of honour had to be tied up in the back of the ute ...

Beforehand Nick was looking charming
with a dressing on his head so brother John kindly donated a hat....

Looking a little pensive...






Brother John held the rings...


Uh Oh, what's going on to our
left...?

It's Ok it's just Stella with the confetti....


The
signing...there's no going back now....


Now its official...

With Family...

And Friends....

Now
Mr and Mrs McBride can relax....